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Which do you prefer (pls state Dom / sub / switch etc ) sting or thud?

What is your favourite toy to create the sting/thud?




Personally i love sting rather than thud and although there was a time i was terrified of it i do rather like the cane.

But... only applied by Himself and only with a medium cane.

It can sting like a billion bees if i am getting it for swearing at Himself . but if purely in play I have discovered a grudging like/love for that cane.

i must be completely nuts!!!



i am such a lucky brat, i have Himself as both my play and my play partner for 20 years now.

This is a dilemma From a Dom point of view i have 2 scenarios to contend with
Giving the spankee what they like
Giving the spankee what they dont like
So my answer is both and it varies by play partner and situation

!MW wrote: ↑Wed Aug 30, 2023 11:15 am This is a dilemma From a Dom point of view i have 2 scenarios to contend with
Giving the spankee what they like
Giving the spankee what they dont like
So my answer is both and it varies by play partner and situation

i agree.

In pure play with us it's scenario a) when i'm in trouble eg when i have broken agreed rules it's scenario b)

What i guess i was asking was what do people prefer in non discipline play.

Sorry i should have made myself clearer.

Xx cassie

I like to be caned with a rattan cane, I have several. It doesn't need to be discipline play, I just love being caned XX

My wife much prefers a 5.5 - 6.5 mm Dragon cane. Kooboo is OK but not as 'thuddy' as a similar sized Dragon. She prefers a thuddy cane to just about anything else. That said she's not a huge fan of 'sting' .... No fan of plastic or wooden bath bats or stingy canes ... but neither am I.

After all these decades of constant use, her bottom has no 'weak spots' on the skin.. That is not because of few strokes or soft soft strokes ... But because I avoid such things as wooden paddles and/or bath bats. Leather is fine, however IMO wood used vigorously, is not.