Hi Mark

Welcome!

BottomsUp wrote: ↑Mon Apr 10, 2023 4:51 pm If someone says they don’t use safewords, avoid them like the plague. They are not good play partners to have.

Abso-flippin'-lutely - and that goes whether they're a top or a bottom.

What Cally said.

I once heard someone being interviewed about a role-play school he ran, and he said something along the lines of “what we do is completely ridiculous. If you’re not constantly thirty seconds away from falling about laughing, then you’re probably doing it wrong”.

That.

That's a very cool question, MissNC - it's really easy to assume people know what things mean! It's basically about keeping an eye on the threads and in chat and making sure that everyone's playing nicely and sticking to the rules. If absolutely necessary we can mute people, and kick them out for pe...

These feel like they'll definitely help keep the room feeling safe.

These feel like they'll definitely help keep the room feeling safe.

Oh, and I’d be way more comfortable in a chatroom where there was no conversation about the spanking of actual minors, including peoples own stories.

This is a really important thread - thank you. Can we have an 'absolutely do not give any information about anyone else' rule? I've already seen some mean breaches of confidentiality. I'd also be glad of a 'no discriminatory language - homophobia, transphobia, racism, or anything allied that I haven...

London Tanner died in 2019. He wasn’t a regular in chat, but he was well known and well loved in the community, and provided many of us with our favourite implements.

He was an uncompromisingly hard player, and an uncompromisingly kind man.