No pearls wisdom really. But for those just starting out I would give a degree of comfort.....you are not odd, wholly alone and there's no need to hide under a rock. There are folk out there you can chat with, play with and the numbers of like minded souls are far, far better than you might think. T...

A couple spring to mind. I played with a lovely, bubbly lady from Wrexham for a while. But on our first proper ''session" meeting at her home I discovered she was the owner of a colossal German Shepherd. I was assured he was friendly but it'd be an idea if he was released from the kitchen for 5...

I suppose it was certain triggers.

I adored the female bottom from very early on but weirdly I also much preferred confident, powerful female partners.

So that marked down as a switch from the outset

A lovely session with the unwitting gardener mowing the lawn beneath us.....my Mistress laughed, should have checked the diary.