Some years ago I was walking down a hotel corridor in London with my wife when we heard slaps and yelps from a room we were passing, obviously a spanking in progress. My vanilla wife said something like “ how disgusting” and accelerated her pace along the corridor.

After a gentle “ warm up” spanking on the knickers I like to slowly lower them to unveil the target for the remainder of the spanking. But if my spankee prefers to lower her own knickers, I am very happy with that.