My wife much prefers a 5.5 - 6.5 mm Dragon cane. Kooboo is OK but not as 'thuddy' as a similar sized Dragon. She prefers a thuddy cane to just about anything else. That said she's not a huge fan of 'sting' .... No fan of plastic or wooden bath bats or stingy canes ... but neither am I. After all the...

Everything with us is ... well us. My sub wife and I come as a unit. Firstly we use two containers ... A sports bag and a map tube. Map/poster/document tubes are ideal for canes, rods, even some straps etc. Our sports bag would hold straps, paddles and so forth. In the sports bag would be: * Antisep...

Neither my sub wife or I have any real interest in coital sex, myself even less interest than herself.

Though we managed to create a couple of children (both now in their 30's), 99% of the time we were all about 'scene' activity and coital was not a part if it in any way.

Excitement .... When fresh to the scene, be extremely careful of your own excitment. It can lead to poor decisions and bad mistakes for all people; be they dominant, submissive or switch.

Quite possibly I am entirely missing something, such an 'Introduce yourself here' thread .. I have looked for a while and seem unable to locate such an entry, but it'll no doubt be me! So I thought I would briefly say 'Hello' on this thread. Whilst I have been around the whole scene for quite some t...