It depends on the partner I'm with if I'm honest. As much as I love spanking, I'm not a pure spanko, I'm more into minds, so for me a lot of it depends on the space I'm with with that particular person. Do I love spanking? Absolutely, is it the first thing on my mind? No, not always.

Welcome Aanouk! good to see you.

Chat is now limited to members of the forum. If you can't see the lovely yellow chat button in the site header and would like to get in to the room, then please login to the forum first, the yellow button will then appear and you can enter chat as normal. If you aren't a member of the forum, and wan...

Seeing as we've had a lot of advice to tops about the importance of bottoms (and rightly so), I'll make my one piece of advice this. Your Top is not a fetish delivery service, if you are bratting and not getting a response, or if you are expecting the top to do something because they are the top, re...

Have you got in since Supersub?

New anonymous users have been banned from chat Cally_, so the site was probably looking for your forum login and couldn't find it because you either weren't logged in to the forum at the time, or the site wasn't reporting you as being logged in. If you log in to the forum and then log straight in to...

If you had only one piece of advice to pass on about your time doing this thing we do, or one thing you want to pass on to new people in the scene about the scene as it was in the old days what would you say... if you could only pass on one piece of important information, what would it be? Keep an e...

Thanks Kieth, no progress as yet, but thanks for your continued efforts. Kind regards, Henry Saw you in the chat today Henry, so fortunately now I expect your login to be recognised. This means you should be able to login using those same details every time. Let me know if you have any further prob...

Thanks Kieth, i'm not having any luck with your suggestions. Perhaps if you kick me out entirely I can re-register and that'll sort the issue. I absolutely will do that for you Henry, but before I do, Dai and I are hoping to try a change in the chat integration so we can get you in on your current ...

I am far from used to the controls of this site. I composed a reply to you. It is now in my outbox rather than appearing in my sent items. Have you received it? Failing that I can’t see how to send it from outbox 🤷‍♂️ I have it Cally_, it stays in your outbox until the user it is intended for picks...